 this song has been running thru my head for days because seasons change people change #childofthe80s but for real things change all the time it's so bittersweet here we are smack dab in the middle of yet another transition while i'm excited to have regular work/school hours again i'm also sad to see summer go plus transitions are the hardest thing ever for both kids and parents whether it's getting... * out the door * into the car * ready for bed * back to school ready ugh transitions are challenging here's some transition tips whether it's back to school or bedtime to make life easier and to develop security + strength in our children the foundation for all learning - and cooperation  Transition Tips to keep it simple and bring it back to basics.#1 Connection = Cooperation Slow it down. Focus on the relationship with your child. Connect before you correct. This Fall season, choose connection time over a full, over-committed schedule chock full of activities. And just "say no" to any unnecessary obligations that will add more stress to your family. Do be sure to schedule in one family nature/outdoor activity for September and one for October. As summer wraps, up we tend to spend more time indoors. Nature is the best way to connect and begin anew. #2 Declutter just a wee bit. After you've Konmari-ed your schedule for Connection and simplicity, take a peek at your physical space to support your family's transitions. But take it easy on you. Grab a grocery bag. Pick an area of your home (entryway, kid's room, your room, or bathroom is best) - and set a timer for 5-10 minutes. Do a quick sweep of the area placing everything into the bag you can donate. Or get 2 bigs: one for donations and one for put away. Sticking to 5-10 minutes will keep it doable. And if you want to do more after that, go to town! Decluttering our space declutters our minds, and transitions call for clear thinking. #3 Positive Parenting Communication Tools: Review some of our favorite Positive Parenting Tools.... Prep for Success, Make it a Song, Encouragement, Two Positive Choices , and Curiosity Questions Pick one tool and consistently practice it for a week. Want to dig deeper into Cooperation? Get on the waitlist for Just Listen to Me. Please be good to you. Remember we all struggle with transitions. I hope these tips help support all your Fall transitions!
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Mama Megan
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family! 
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