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9/10/2018

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a means of
solving  a problem
or dealing with
a difficult situation

is this every
minute
ever day
in the life
as a parent?

where ever
we look
there's
a problem
or
a difficult stituation
exploding
in our faces

all the problems
+
difficult situations
are
wearing
despairing
and
ultimately
a shock
to our systems

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what makes
it worse
is the old
punishment
+
reward
model

that says
if you
are stressed
feel
bad
sad
afraid
if
you make
a mistake
mess up
misbehave
then....
you're
a bad person

this
is
TRULY
HONESTLY
the.wrongest.thing.ever
+
absolutely false

when we
feel bad
then feel like
a bad person
on top of it
the bad
takes over
+
life
feels
BAD
all-around

so
what if
i told you...

if you
feel
bad
sad
afraid
stressed
if
you make
a mistake
mess up
misbehave
you're
a still
an amazing
wonderful
inherently
good
+
absolutely
terrific
person

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this is what
we do in
positive parenting
+
your happy home

we help
you know
you're goodness
even when
you feel bad

total
game changer

the #1 most
positive thing
you can ever do
for your children
is to know 
in your heart
when you feel bad
you're still
a good person

AND
USE
SOLUTIONS
~ instead
of punishments
+
rewards

so you teach your kids 
how to
solve problems
believe in
themselves
expect happiness
even when
they misbehave
or mess up

w
ant to learn more
about focusing on 
solutions?


solutions
is a key 
to the 4 pillars
of your happy home

we're going
to be talking
solutions
+
more
from 
the 4 pillars 
of your happy home
+
positive parenting
in the upcoming 
happy home
acceptance
challenge

more details to come this week!
until then...

the solution 
is to strengthen
the goodness
within
so
when you feel bad
you still know 
you're good


because you are
an amazing
person
+
parent
solutions 
will help
you feel
that way

You Got This.


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    Hi friends,  I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative."  This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family!

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