 a means of solving a problem or dealing with a difficult situation is this every minute ever day in the life as a parent? where ever we look there's a problem or a difficult stituation exploding in our faces all the problems + difficult situations are wearing despairing and ultimately a shock to our systems  what makes it worse is the old punishment + reward model that says if you are stressed feel bad sad afraid if you make a mistake mess up misbehave then.... you're a bad person this is TRULY HONESTLY the.wrongest.thing.ever + absolutely false when we feel bad then feel like a bad person on top of it the bad takes over + life feels BAD all-around so what if i told you... if you feel bad sad afraid stressed if you make a mistake mess up misbehave you're a still an amazing wonderful inherently good + absolutely terrific person  this is what we do in positive parenting + your happy home we help you know you're goodness even when you feel bad total game changer the #1 most positive thing you can ever do for your children is to know in your heart when you feel bad you're still a good person AND USE SOLUTIONS ~ instead of punishments + rewards so you teach your kids how to solve problems believe in themselves expect happiness even when they misbehave or mess up want to learn more about focusing on solutions? solutions is a key to the 4 pillars of your happy home we're going to be talking solutions + more from the 4 pillars of your happy home + positive parenting in the upcoming happy home acceptance challenge more details to come this week! until then... the solution is to strengthen the goodness within so when you feel bad you still know you're good because you are an amazing person + parent solutions will help you feel that way You Got This.
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Mama Megan
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family! 
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