by Rachel Hadiashar
I sat down with a bunch of kids
the other day,
and they told me who's going to win
and when the world's going to end.
Kids are psychic,
but not in that kind of way.
Kids are psychic because
they can read the emotions and thoughts
of their parents.
Since kids are wired to be connected to us
- and they're literally growing their brains
off of our brains-
they are so closely attuned to us
that science is officially saying....
Children are psychic in regard
to their parents' emotions and thoughts.
What does this mean for parents?
If you are struggling as a parent,
or with your child over a certain issue,
take a breather.
Recognize the current struggle
you are having is designed to help you grow.
The power of you is in holding
what you DO want for your children
---rather than focusing on being worried,
angry or frustrated with your kids
(although that's often part of the process).
I totally know:
life gets stressful.
Sometimes the negative takes over.
If the negative is taking over,
open up to what you need
to have your needs met,
and to feel good within.
Then you can go forward with this formula
(I highlighted each step in a free video series
in my Facebook group here this week
to celebrate my online program beginning
tomorrow. If you're joining us~ welcome!
To watch the videos, click here.)
Here's a quick summary to maximize
your children's psychic abilities,
say goodbye to power struggles,
and have more cooperation in your home:
1) Think about what you DO want your child to be doing, and tell them clearly and confidently.
ie: Don't hit ----> Be gentle. Or hit the pillow.
ie: Don't talk to me that way. -----> Talk respectfully,
like "please mom can you help me ______."
2) Do a Connection Check.
Do you feel connected to your best self,
and the best in your children?
If not, what can you do to get in that place?
3) Believe in them.
Believe that whatever it is: they can do it!
See it happening. Trust in them.
(Parents call this magic precisely
because children are psychic!)
When you send the message of,
"You can do it" to your children.
They read the message, "I can do it."
And very often, they do it!
4) Send the message of LOVE + RESPECT.
What does your tone of voice sound like
and your body language look like
when you communicate from a place
of love and respect for yourself,
and love and respect for your children.
Steps 1 to 4 may be straightforward,
but it doesn't mean they're easy.
Parenting is a practice,
and an art form.
When you get in that place
and everything clicks
with this new way of being,
(and your needs are met as a parent)
---- your children will become
and your home a more peaceful place.
Because children are psychic,
and just vibing off of you.
When you can harness
the positive potential of your mind,
they will follow you.
be patience and compassionate
and your process.
Because positive parenting
takes time and practice.
You got this.
All the best,
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family!